Thomas Erwin Lawyer, a beloved husband, respected veteran, and cherished member of the Elk Grove community, passed away unexpectedly on August 9th in Elk Grove at the age of 77. A memorial service honoring the life of Thomas Lawyer will be held on Thursday, August 22nd, at 8:30 a.m. at East Lawn Memorial Park in Sacramento. Following the service, he will be interred with full military honors at the Sacramento Valley National Cemetery in Dixon. Pastor Rich Chaffin is set to officiate both ceremonies.
Born to Bud and Ginny Lawyer in Upland, California, Thomas, affectionately known as Thom to friends and family, spent his formative years in Rosamond and Huntington Beach alongside his sister, Lynda White. His early life in sunny California shaped a man of warmth and resilience, qualities that would define him throughout his life and career.
His sense of duty called him to serve in the U.S. Air Force during the Vietnam War. Thomas Lawyer served his country with pride and dedication, embodying the spirit of patriotism that remained with him long after his service concluded. This period of service was a defining chapter in his life, instilling in him discipline and a profound respect for his nation.
Following his military service, Thomas Lawyer transitioned into the burgeoning field of technology, building a successful career in marketing and IT operations. His professional life was marked by a sharp intellect and a commitment to excellence. Even after retirement, his passion for technology continued as he became the trusted tech support resource for family and friends, and a mentor to young individuals interested in computer science. This demonstrated not only his expertise but also his generous spirit and desire to give back to the community.
For three decades, Thomas Lawyer and his wife Georgia made Elk Grove their home. Known for his signature cheerful exclamation, “Swell,” Thom brought joy and positivity to those around him. The family expresses heartfelt gratitude to the VA Spinal Cord Injury Clinic in Palo Alto, Paralyzed Vets of America, Kaiser Home Health Care Team, and the Veterans Administration In-Home Care Team for their compassionate support and care.
Despite facing the challenges of Multiple Sclerosis, diagnosed in 1993, Thomas Lawyer approached life with unwavering positivity and became an inspiration to many. His resilience in the face of adversity was a testament to his strong character and optimistic outlook. The profound support from friends, who he often referred to as his ‘arms and legs’ over the past 31 years, was deeply appreciated by both Thomas and Georgia.
Thomas Lawyer is survived by his loving wife Georgia, his mother Virginia, his sister Lynda, and his niece Laura Lowery and her husband Dan. He also leaves behind his three children, Thomas, Veronica, and Lisa. He was preceded in death by his father Bud, brother-in-law Jim White, and niece Lesha Houser. Pallbearers for the service will be Brad Martin, Philip McDermott, Mike Pieri, Steve Pieri, Derek Tom, Jerry Tom, and Wayne Urbani.
In remembrance of Thomas Lawyer’s life, and in lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his name to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation, an organization he passionately supported. Contributions can be sent to 2361 Hylan Boulevard, Staten Island, New York, NY 10306, or made online at https://t2t.org/. The legacy of Thomas Lawyer, a devoted husband, veteran, and friend, will be cherished and remembered by all who knew him.
